How are you all doing?
My today’s post is about the fading humanity and moral values in the society and one of the very sad victims of this situation is “Woman”. Yes, the “Woman”, “Devi” or many other names that is used to describe her.
It feels very unfortunate to see the modesty of women getting compromised in the hand of today’s men, the proud men. No, only rape is not the only mode of compromise, if we think of it, we do it every moment. Let’s see some examples:
- Your bra is visible, please adjust it. Okay. It’s just a garment people. Would you tell a man, please adjust your tshirt, your vest strap is visible
- Listen, these 5 days you have to be away from kitchen. Please ensure that you don’t touch utensils. Okay geniuses, it’s just a body process. Imagine a man bleeding so much in those 5 days and that too every month. Think through it guys !!
- Don’t wear these provocative clothes. Otherwise you’re bound to get stares. My simple question – Why???
- The killer one is a mother advising her own daughter “You would be a newly wed daughter in law. Behave properly”. Now my question to that mother is would you put such checks on daughter also.
These are just few of the instances. We have killed humanity absolutely today and the best part, we haven’t even realised yet. We need to take actions now!! I have ensured that all the above problems are witnessed at my house. You have to take the initiative!!! Yes. “Men” need to do justice to their identity and they need “being Men”
My below poem is about the situation (hope we never reach there) when one of critical human values “Shame” leaves this world forever but she has one last conversation with human being citing her the reasons to live. Read it and let people know that we are moving towards a very sad end!!
Chala ja rha tha befikar main apne raste
Ki dikhi mujhe mod par ek sehmi hui si ladki
Pucha maine kaun hai tu yaha aayi kiske vaste
Kuch boli nai woh, ghoorti rahi mujhe woh ladki
Mera dil pareshan hua, main baitha uske paas
Dur ho gayi mujhse woh, tej ho gayi uski saans
Main sar par rakha hath, aur pucha pyar se
ghabra mat, Sar utha bata hasrat shaan se
Boli mera naam hai sharam, reh gayi hu akeli
Maara tumne insaniyat ko, thi woh meri saheli
Mujhe bhi aaj nikal diya hai tum sab insano ne
Dukhi hu main badi, aye aadmi tere kaarnamo se
Yeh sun main ghabra gaya, bola tu chal sath
Main rakhunga tujhe apne paas, har paal har hath
Dekha usne aur kaha tujh par bhi tha bharosa
Par tune bhi umeed todi, tu bhi nikla baki Sab sa
Kyu chup raha tu, jab aurat ho rahi thi begirebaan
Main ro rhi thi, chilla rahi thi, tu tha khada anjaan
Ja rahi hu ab is duniya se, kya hoga pata nai
Kaash rab na banata tujhe, dharti ki hoti yeh dasha (condition) nai
I can only say that I have imitated a move at my place. The women talk freely about their menstrual problems. There is no concept of mother in law and daughter in law at my house. No one would have to worry about their bra straps. Everyone wears whatever they have to wear.