Hi Guys,
How are you all doing?
My today’s post is about the fading humanity and moral values in the society and one of the very sad victims of this situation is “Woman”. Yes, the “Woman”, “Devi” or many other names that is used to describe her.
It feels very unfortunate to see the modesty of women getting compromised in the hand of today’s men, the proud men. No, only rape is not the only mode of compromise, if we think of it, we do it every moment. Let’s see some examples:
- Your bra is visible, please adjust it. Okay. It’s just a garment people. Would you tell a man, please adjust your tshirt, your vest strap is visible
- Listen, these 5 days you have to be away from kitchen. Please ensure that you don’t touch utensils. Okay geniuses, it’s just a body process. Imagine a man bleeding so much in those 5 days and that too every month. Think through it guys !!
- Don’t wear these provocative clothes. Otherwise you’re bound to get stares. My simple question – Why???
- The killer one is a mother advising her own daughter “You would be a newly wed daughter in law. Behave properly”. Now my question to that mother is would you put such checks on daughter also.
These are just few of the instances. We have killed humanity absolutely today and the best part, we haven’t even realised yet. We need to take actions now!! I have ensured that all the above problems are witnessed at my house. You have to take the initiative!!! Yes. “Men” need to do justice to their identity and they need “being Men”
My below poem is about the situation (hope we never reach there) when one of critical human values “Shame” leaves this world forever but she has one last conversation with human being citing her the reasons to live. Read it and let people know that we are moving towards a very sad end!!
Chala ja rha tha befikar main apne raste
Ki dikhi mujhe mod par ek sehmi hui si ladki
Pucha maine kaun hai tu yaha aayi kiske vaste
Kuch boli nai woh, ghoorti rahi mujhe woh ladki
Mera dil pareshan hua, main baitha uske paas
Dur ho gayi mujhse woh, tej ho gayi uski saans
Main sar par rakha hath, aur pucha pyar se
ghabra mat, Sar utha bata hasrat shaan se
Boli mera naam hai sharam, reh gayi hu akeli
Maara tumne insaniyat ko, thi woh meri saheli
Mujhe bhi aaj nikal diya hai tum sab insano ne
Dukhi hu main badi, aye aadmi tere kaarnamo se
Yeh sun main ghabra gaya, bola tu chal sath
Main rakhunga tujhe apne paas, har paal har hath
Dekha usne aur kaha tujh par bhi tha bharosa
Par tune bhi umeed todi, tu bhi nikla baki Sab sa
Kyu chup raha tu, jab aurat ho rahi thi begirebaan
Main ro rhi thi, chilla rahi thi, tu tha khada anjaan
Ja rahi hu ab is duniya se, kya hoga pata nai
Kaash rab na banata tujhe, dharti ki hoti yeh dasha (condition) nai
I can only say that I have imitated a move at my place. The women talk freely about their menstrual problems. There is no concept of mother in law and daughter in law at my house. No one would have to worry about their bra straps. Everyone wears whatever they have to wear.
Think !!!!
Be happy!!
Much love
Niraj
Great to know your views
Very few people have such thoughts
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Let’s make an effort that everyone follows these thoughts
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Yups
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Absolutely
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Niraj, firstly I would want to say a “HATS OFF” for this post. It is so much talking about the reality. I would so much love to know what the poem says. Give me permission to use your post one day, it is much of an importance. Thanks buddy
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You don’t need permission my dear friend. Please use it and spread the word as much as possible till it reaches everyone
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Can you just help me through the translation for the poem so that people who do not understand can get it when I post it.
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Yeah. I would. Is there any social media platform where you are active !!
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Sadly I do not have buddy. Do you mind sending me the translations here in the link?
https://helpbreakthesilence.wordpress.com/contact-me/
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Let me figure out. Surely I would
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I will be reposting this tomorrow buddy, that is why I am urging you 🙂
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Sure.
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Buddy, did you yet send me the translations ? (sorry I am super annoying)
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No ya. Not you. Actually I am trying to put up English translation. It’s just that poem translation from Hindi to English is a bit tough stuf
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Ah I see, what about an english summary for the poem, it will work
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Give me two days time. I would actually have you the translation. Have sought help from a friend
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Okay buddy, just wanted to give an idea about the poem to people who do not understand
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Yeah. That’s a noble thought and I would be more than keen to participate in this
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Thought provoking post indeed Niraj. I feel proud of people holding such beliefs. It shows that we, as a society, have come a long way👏
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Thank you 😊
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Keep going!
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Great post. And I am glad that such so called taboos are so accepted in your family. But, I want to clear one thing, wouldn’t point out any particular woman because I am woman myself. The reason behind stopping or to be positive, freeing the woman for three days during the mensuration cycle is not ‘her’ but the cleansing of bio-energies which will be called ‘doshas ‘ in Hindi. It does not mean a woman is an untouchable at that time but the time when she needs to rest. It also has nothing to do with gender discrimination. Here I am not to criticise who protest against it but to pray that the reason behind this is not only spiritual but round about scientific. I embrace these three days because on the fourth day I am more energised then before.
To be more precise- please refer to the following article-
https://mythrispeaks.wordpress.com/2015/05/28/unearthing-menstrual-wisdom-why-we-dont-go-to-the-temple/
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Absolutely agreed. There is a very interesting mythological logic to every tradition we follow these days.
These theories evolve with the ages and evolution of human body
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☺️ Pᶓȵfĩℓả 💕 lead me here! Beautiful post Lost Heart. Thank you! Keep it up with the brothers on this one, they need “real” men living good values in front of them.
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P.S. is there an English translation for your poem?
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Yes. Even Pen asked the same. I am working on it and would send soon !
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Merci!
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Bienvenue 🙂
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Thank you. Indeed, we need everyone to work towards the thought. Come over these petty tjinhs and move towards the new light!!
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Such a beautiful post. Pen told me to check it out. It is really wonderful. I appreciate your initiative
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Thank you. I am glad you managed out time to check it out.
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It is more than my pleasure. Nice to know you. I’m Raj
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Great post dear. You really did a good job 👍👍
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Thank you very much Jaya
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The pleasure is mine
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Loved one poem… 💟
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Thanks much
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